
Those of you that missed out on Pam Mihankhah's visit to the library on Teen Etiquette, I have her handout I'm typing up for you right now. So, here is the
Purdue Extension Office of Henry County's:
Ten Commandments for Good Manners
1. Thou Shall Be Thyself.
Good manners begin with a good sense of self.
2. Thou Shall Say "Thank You."
Thanking others is a way of praising them and is one of the keys to having good manners. Send thank-you notes, or express your gratitude on the phone. This simple act will be lasting relationships. When someone gives you a compliment, the best response is a simple "thank you." And don't forget "please," "excuse me," and "you're welcome," which are other marks of good manners.
3. Thou Shall Give Compliments.
A fundamental rule of good manners is to give. Think about what you can give to others, and remember that the most precious gifts cost nothing. When you meet someone, you can always think of a genuine compliment to give. A "Hello" or "How are you?" may not be enough. You can also give you undivided attention and interest to others. You can be generous with words of praise, warm greetings, sympathy, love and other good news.
4. Thou Shalt Not be Boastful, Arrogant or Loud.
5. Thou Shall Listen Before Speaking.
6. Thou Shall Speak with Kindness and Caution.
7. Thou Shall not Criticize or Complain.
8. Thou Shall be Punctual.
9. Thou Shalt Not Embarrass Others.
10. Thou Shall Act and Look your Best.
What do you think of Pam's Ten Commandments? Been slipping on your etiquette? Or are you the next Miss Manners? If you want more on manners, check out this book at the library catalog link here:
How Rude! The Teenagers' Guide to Good Manners, Proper Behavior and Not Grossing People Out by Alex J. Packer. This book will send some Miss Manners types running! It features some hilarious gross-out stories. Check it out.